The Values Diaries
Useful insights on the enormous power of shared human values, from human values keynote speaker David Allison.
The Values Diaries
Useful insights on the enormous power of shared human values, from human values keynote speaker David Allison.
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Leading Real Estate Teams: The Values Approach That Keeps Top Performers
Your brokerage offers competitive splits. Your technology is current. Your brand has recognition. And your best agents keep leaving sometimes for competitors with worse offerings, sometimes for independence, sometimes for reasons they can't quite articulate.
Your Clients Won’t Choose the Best Accounting or Law Firm. They’ll Choose the Right One.
The best firm has the credentials, the case studies, the technical expertise, and the always-popular “we’ve done this before” slide in their deck. All useful and necessary stuff. But ranking as the “best choice” is a logic game. And humans are anything but logical, even if they pretend very hard to be. Logic is only part of the equation.
An Employee of the Month Program Won’t Keep Your Best Hotel Employees From Leaving. But this will.
Yes, I’m being cute here, but it’s true: your best housekeeper won’t stay for the employee of the month award. Neither will your best front desk agent, your best night auditor, or your best groundskeeper. The plaque on the wall, the photo in the break room, the gift card to a restaurant they’ll never use. It’s all a nice gesture. But it won’t stop them from looking around for a better job that feels like more of a fit.
Why Your Customer Experience Strategy Isn't Working: The Values Disconnect
Your customer journey is mapped. Your touchpoints are optimized. Your NPS is tracked religiously. And somehow, customers still leave for competitors and rarely advocate for you.
What Employees Who Love AI Have in Common (And How to Create More of Them)
Some of your people can't stop using AI. Others won't touch it. The difference isn't tech savviness, age, or job function. It's something else entirely.
I'm going to give you The AI Enthusiast Profile a breakdown of the three values that consistently appear in employees who embrace AI without being pushed. Once you know what these values are, you can start designing AI initiatives that activate them across your workforce. Or, at minimum, you'll stop accidentally suppressing them.
Making Better Decisions: The Values Filter That Cuts Through Complexity
Your analysis is thorough. Your options are well-defined. Your criteria are clear. And you're still paralyzed or worse, making decisions you regret almost immediately after making them
AI Adoption Isn't About Training. It's About Trust: A Values-Based Framework
Your employees have been through three AI training sessions. They still aren't using the tools. The problem isn't what they know. It's what they feel.
Here's something that might help: The Trust Before Tools Framework. It's a sequence of four conversations you need to have before any AI rollout, and the order matters. I've watched organizations skip straight to the "here's how it works" training and then wonder why adoption stalled at 15%. The ones who get the sequence right see entirely different results. Let me show you why.
Why Succession Planning Fails: The Values Alignment Nobody Considers
Your succession plan identifies high-potential leaders. Your development pipeline is full. Your competency assessments are sophisticated. And when transitions happen, they still go badly, not because successors lack capability, but because something essential was missed.
What High Net Worth Clients Actually Value: Beyond the Wealth Stereotypes
Your AI rollout is stalling, and more training isn't going to fix it.
Here's a tool that will: The Values Resistance Audit. Five questions. Takes about ten minutes. Ask yourself these questions about your team before your next AI initiative, and you'll know exactly where the resistance is coming from and what to do about it. I'll walk you through each one in this post.
The 5 Real Reasons Your Employees Won't Touch AI (And What to Do About Each One)
Your AI rollout is stalling, and more training isn't going to fix it.
Here's a tool that will: The Values Resistance Audit. Five questions. Takes about ten minutes. Ask yourself these questions about your team before your next AI initiative, and you'll know exactly where the resistance is coming from and what to do about it. I'll walk you through each one in this post.
Change Management That Works: Why Your Team Isn't Really Afraid of Change
There's no one-size-fits-all solution for leading teams through mergers, layoffs, or rapid growth. Every organization is different. But after analyzing nearly a million survey responses, we found three values that consistently matter to people working in large American corporations. This article gives you a practical tactic for each one, something you can actually use on Monday morning.
Why Employees Aren't Using AI (And How to Fix It): New Gallup Data Reveals the Real Problem
Gallup just dropped their January 2025 update on AI at work, and the headline number isn't the interesting part. Yes, "frequent" AI use keeps climbing. But here's what caught my attention: overall adoption has flatlined.
What Homebuyers Really Want: Values-Based Real Estate Marketing That Works
Nearly 1,400 Greater Toronto residents who say they're extremely likely to buy a home in the next two years told us what matters to them. Then we did something that makes this research genuinely different: we benchmarked their answers against reality.
Why Your AI Rollout Is Failing: The Human Side of Getting Employees to Adopt AI
At CES 2026, the tech industry's message was deafening: AI in everything. Robotics, banking interfaces, employee platforms, health monitors, creator tools. If it plugs in or connects to the internet, it now runs on AI.
Next Generation Wealth: What High Net Worth Millennials and Gen Z Actually Value
If you work anywhere near financial services, you can feel the shift in the air. A massive transfer of wealth is underway, and it’s bringing a massive transfer of expectations with it. The inheritors stepping into financial power are building different lives, different definitions of success, and different relationships with the people who claim to serve them.
The Psychology of Brand Loyalty: Why Customers Stay (And How to Earn Their Trust)
Why do two contractors with identical demographics reach for completely different power tool brands? The answer lives in their values. And understanding this changes everything about how we connect with customers.
Destination Marketing in Polarized Times: A Values-Based Approach for DMOs
Destination marketers are being asked to inspire inbound visitors, lift local pride, and brief policymakers who wake up on different sides of the aisle. That is a lot of needles to thread with one piece of thread. The answer, of course, is shared values.
Why Creativity Demands Courage
Every creative person knows this feeling: you put your work into the world and wait. Will it be loved, ignored, or torn apart? Creativity is a leap of faith that requires you to show who you are inside, and that leap takes courage.
The Root Cause of Disengagement: What a Physiotherapist Taught Me About Leadership
I was hurting. For over a year, my back was telling me something wasn’t right. I tried everything: acupuncture, massage, stretching, all the usual suspects. Nothing worked. Until I met a physiotherapist who did something unusual. He looked at the front of me. He pressed around and said, “You don’t have a back problem. You have a front problem.”
Turns out, he was right. After a few minutes working on the aftermath of an old surgery, the pain vanished. Just like that.
Urban Development and Community Values: How to Build Cities People Actually Love
When you think about the future of cities, think about What Matters Most to the people who live there. Here’s how.